How to make foreign friends on the internet

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Making Japanese friends online can be very difficult, many Japanese people are shy, and many more are uncomfortable speaking in English. Also, Japanese people tend to use Japanese social networking sites rather than international sites like Facebook, for cultural reasons, many Japanese demand stronger privacy controls than most U.S. sites offer.

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How can I make Japanese friends online? Making Japanese friends online can be very difficult, many Japanese people are shy, and many more are uncomfortable speaking in English. Also, Japanese people tend to use Japanese social networking sites rather than international sites like Facebook, for cultural reasons, many Japanese demand stronger privacy controls than most U.S. sites offer. Thankfully, Oh My Japan is a social network designed specifically to help connect English speakers with Japanese people. Even so, making friends online, especially Japanese friends, can be challenging. For example, if you are chatting online using software like Skype or MSN, there is a time lag of about half a day between the U.S. and Japan, even just finding time when you both are available to talk can be difficult, since morning in the U.S. is night in Japan (and vice versa). This article contains the tips which I have found to be the most helpful when making Japanese friends online. Make friends with similar interests. Although it's very easy to meet people online, it can be hard to keep the relationship going strong. People come and go, and even if you have a few great conversations, sometimes the connection fizzles out within a couple weeks. One reason for this is that people run out of things to talk about. Even if two people don't have much in common, they can enjoy a few nice conversations of small talk as they introduce themselves to one another. However, once they have told their stories, there is often no place for the relationship to grow. To make sure that you always have something to talk about, consider making friends who share some of the same interests as you. Art, sports, movies, music-- if you have the same hobbies or enjoy relaxing in the same way, it will be much easier to develop a friendship that stands the test of time. Oh My Japan makes this easy by allowing you to add interests to your profile. Once you have added an interest on the basic info page, you can click that interest on your profile to show a list of all other members who have selected that interest. Language considerations- Use grammatically correct English. Whether you are chatting on Skype or MSN or corresponding via e-mail, be sure to use gramattically correct English when writing to Japanese people. Many Japanese have studied English grammar for several years (most Japanese study English for at least six years from junior high school through to the end of high school), however, their knowledge of English is textbook grammar" and not the kind of "natural" English one finds in TV, movies, and everyday conversation. While most Japanese people will appreciate your helping them to improve their conversational skills, don't be too casual, especially at first. Specifically, I would suggest the following: Avoid profanity. While in truth I often swear, learning how to curse properly can be very difficult for beginners in English. Also, Japanese profanity operates completely differently than English profanity. Further, many Japanese people feel uncomfortable with such language (as do many native English speakers!) Thus, the safest thing to do is to be sure not to swear too much, especially when you are first getting to know each other. Of course, if your Japanese friend is dropping an f-bomb every third word, feel free to mix it up a little. Spell correctly. While native English speakers can easily tell what you meant to say even if your spelling isn't perfect, your Japanese friend may be looking up half the words you type in a dictionary. If you don't spell correctly, your friend can't even look up the words! Abbreviate as little as possible. While abbreviations like LOL, BRB, and "bcuz" are common on the Internet and in mobile phone text messages, most Japanese people are not familiar with them. Avoid using abbreviations whenever possible and check to make sure your friend knows any given expression when you first use it. Write complete sentences that start with a capital letter and end with a period. It sounds lame but it will make you much easier to understand for non-native speakers.













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